Anonymous asked: Give us guys some advise on giving girls head.
1. Light some candles, girls love that fancy.
2. Turn off the lights, most likely she is insecure about her body like most women are.
3. TAKE YOUR TIME, anticipation build up is EXPLOSIVE, if yadddddamean.
4. Kiss everything but, before you do the deed and lick the clitoris. If you don’t know where this is, you must be too young to be going down on girls anyway. It is the little tiny gummy bear pearl above the vaginal opening, under the labia.
5. Be gentle, there are 8000 nerves in the clitoris, 15000 nerve fibers in the pelvic area. YES she can feel everything you’re doing, NO it’s not like it is in porn.
6. Don’t be afraid to moan and groan a little, it’s a turn on.
7. Enjoy yourself, she’s enjoying it as much as you are.
8. I know you probably think flicking your tongue as fast as you can is impressive and a talent, but placing your tongue on the clit and using more of a slow-medium paced rubbing technique can get the job done faster.
9. Stimulate her nipples while you’re down there, it’s a hormone driver and will bring her to climax faster and harder.
10. Take breaks by kissing it with excess amount of lip, softly, sandwiched with a little bit of tongue.
11. Look up at them. Eye contact is so intimate and passionate and daring.
12. Pick her up and make her sit on your face. Point blank.
13. When you lick in a circular motion, most guys think that aggressiveness is key, but don’t get ahead of yourself cowboy, if you go at it too strong you’ll lick everything AROUND it. Lick it in small tiny little circles so you hit every nerve ending on that clit.
14. Contrary to popular belief, sticking your tongue in the actual vagina isn’t very stimulating in any way unless you have a tongue long enough to wrap around and dig into her “g-spot” which is highly unlikely, so don’t waste your time trying to do so, she’s faking it. Rather, get your fingers extremely wet (because no girl likes getting burnt down there off a dry finger) and finger her and rub her “g-spot” while you eat her out. If you don’t know where the g-spot is, stick two fingers in, face up, and tuck under in a “come here” finger signal.
15. Don’t be afraid to spread her lips wide open so you can get her clitoris more vulnerable. Remember, it will be more sensitive, so be gentle and keep it wet.
16. Take breaks to talk dirty to her like asking her if she wants to cum, or asking her if she wants you to make her cum. I love when my man does that.
17. Get all into it. Don’t be dainty. Put your whole mouth on it, your face, what have you. Don’t make it seem like you’re not trying to get wet, and if you’re not, what the heck are you doing down there in the first place little boy? Move out the way and let a man do it!
18. Go off of what you hear, if she is moaning loudly, whatever you’re doing is right. If she’s starting to snore, maybe it’s time to switch it up, if she says don’t stop, well. don’t. um. stop.
19. When she’s about to cum, basically, go HAM. Make her reach new heights of orgasmic explosion EVERY SINGLE TIME. When she cums, having sex will feel better for both of you because it will be extremely wet and it will be a great transition for her coming from orgasm to just constant penetration, it will let her ride her orgasm out.
20. Don’t be afraid to talk about it after and ask her for pointers and what felt good and what didn’t and what helps her reach the big O. Sometimes, talking through the deed and handling being embarrassed by being schooled by a girl on how to eat out for one try can benefit you the rest of your life. That’s what Austin did. He was so eager to learn more. We talked through it one time and now he has me begging to not let me cum yet. It’s harder than giving head, it’s way more sensitive and the moves are intricate. Every girl is different too by the way, so these tricks I’m giving you are just little things to use as guidelines, but asking her what really turns her on is the best you can do. DON’T BE SHY! If she wants you to eat her out, she wants to cum, and if she wants to cum, she’ll be as eager to let you in on her dirty little stimulants as you are eager to learn.
oh and PS, boy you better cuddle after.
